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                                                      DONALD J. TRUMP
                                 mentioned before that one of the perks of being famous is being
                                 able to get restaurant reservations without any problem. My uber-
                                 rich friend has not entitled himself to very many perks.
                                    Ever notice if you introduce someone and then later add on
                                 something like, “as you know, he won the Pulitzer prize,” that the
                                 reaction to the person becomes entirely different? It goes from
                                 polite to excited in no time flat. Suddenly the nobody is a some-
                                 body. Suddenly their PR power, or their buzz effect, has escalated.
                                But unless you have someone around to toot your horn for you,
                                 you’ll have to get accustomed to doing it for yourself.The well-
                                 established brand name literally speaks for itself. Some people may
                                 not even like the designs Karl Lagerfeld comes up with for
                                 Chanel, but because it says Chanel, they’ll buy them, wear them,
                                 and love them.
                                    A name can speak volumes, but until you have a “household
                                 name” you might do well to tell people who you are and what
                                 you’ve done. It’s a start. It’s also a way of networking to find out
                                if you might have common interests. Can you imagine if Luciano
                                Pavarotti had been singing, contentedly, in some obscure place his
                                whole life, what we would have missed? Or if Elton John was
                                happy to just sing for himself in a garage somewhere? There’s noth-
                                ing wrong with bringing your talents to the surface.
                                    Having an ego and acknowledging it is a healthy choice. Our
                                ego is the center of our consciousness and gives us a sense of pur-
                                pose. People with no ego will have very little life force, and peo-
                                ple with too much will tend toward dictatorial personalities. As
                                with everything, keeping a good balance is important.Your ego
                                can serve to keep your momentum moving forward. It can keep
                                you vibrant and productive. It can keep your focus where it should
                                be, which is on your work. After awhile, you won’t have to tell
                                people about your success because they’ll already know about it.
                                Do not disregard your ego.


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