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                     Anyway, reading Jung will give you insights into yourself and the ways

                in which you and other people operate.

                     Have an Ego
                     As you know, this rule has been easy for me to follow. But hear me out
                —I’ve got a good reason for it.
                     Having a well-developed ego, contrary to popular opinion, is a positive

                attribute. It is the center of our consciousness and serves to give us a sense
                of purpose. I remember saying to someone, Show me someone with no ego
                and I’ll show you a big loser. I was trying to stir things up and provoke a
                reaction, but I later realized the basic idea is on target.
                     The  ego  works  to  keep  our  conscious  and  unconscious  aspects  in
                balance. Too much either way can be detrimental. No ego means very little
                life force, and too much means a dictatorial personality. Keep your ego in

                a healthy balance, for your own well-being as well as for those around you.
                Strive for wholeness. It’s an intelligent approach to life and business.
                     Understanding how egos work can be a great tool. Did you ever notice
                how you can deflate an opponent by simply saying, Yeah, whatever you
                say . . .? By doing this, you are gently assuming a no-ego position, which

                disarms the other person while at the same time taking the wind out  of
                their  sails.  It  gives  you  the  peace  of  mind  necessary  to  allow  you  to
                concentrate on something more important than dealing with someone who
                is playing God.
                     Sometimes, rather than confronting a tyrant or a psycho directly, it’s
                more effective to keep the knowledge to yourself and proceed accordingly,
                behind the scenes.
                     We’ve all heard the saying that knowledge is power. The intelligent use

                of that power is crucial in the business world, and it’s just as important in
                your  personal  life.  Your  mind  can  build  castles—just  make  sure  the
                foundations  are  in  place  first.  You,  and  the  people  around  you,  will  be
                grateful for that.


                     Keep Critics in Perspective
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