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In any job, you will be criticized at some point. Let’s face it: Nobody
                but a total masochist wants to be criticized.
                     There is constructive criticism, and then there is destructive criticism.
                Here’s how to assess both types:

                     1.
                     First  of  all,  consider  the  source.  Should  this  person’s  opinion  even
                matter to you?
                     2.
                     If  it  does  matter  to  you,  take  a  few  minutes  to  consider  whether
                anything helpful can result from the criticism. Others can often see things
                that we have overlooked. Use their keen eyes to your advantage.

                     3.
                     Critics serve their purpose. Sometimes they serve a larger purpose, and
                sometimes  they  serve  their  own  purpose.American  Idol  judge  Simon
                Cowell can be critical of the performers on the program, but he’s fair and
                he’s  honest,  and  I  don’t  thinkAmerican  Idol  would  work  without  him.
                Simon was nice enough to complimentThe Apprentice in an interview. I

                think it’s  absolutely  fantastic,  he  told  theDaily  News.I  think  [Trump]  is
                superb on the show. He’s not hamming it up. He’s just playing himself and
                that’s very hard to do on television. As I said, Simon is a fair and honest
                critic, and I am a fan of his.
                     4.
                     Everyone has an opinion. In most cases, it’s not worth the paper it’s
                written on.

                     5.
                     If the opinion is worth the paper it’s written on, and it’s written in a
                paper people are buying and reading, then realize that if people didn’t find
                you interesting enough for public consumption, they wouldn’t be taking
                the time to criticize you. Think of their criticism as a compliment, proof

                of your significance.

                     Homework Is Required and ThereWill Be a Test
                     People  who  think  achieving  success  is  a  linear  A-to-Z  process,  a
                straight shot to the top, simply aren’t in touch with reality. There are very
                few bona fide overnight success stories. It just doesn’t work that way.
                     Success  appears  to  happen  overnight  because  we  all  see  stories  in
                newspapers  and  on  TV  about  previously  unknown  people  who  suddenly
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